catsittingstill

See, 'heavy' and 'known by name and face to all present' are not in any way the same thing. One factoid that got me started down the road towards that post (which has turned from 'what makes a circle sticky, and how can we playwith that' to 'some folks are COOL and the rest just SUCK,' which bothers me) was the fact that it's not just who you are that makes you heavy, it's what you're doing. Behavior can radically change one's circle gravity. I've watched pure listeners, through subtle guiding of circle mood and almost-imperceptible moderation, shape the entire path of a circle towards something much more productive and enjoyable for all.